OCTOBER WRITING CHALLENGE · 15 / 31

Day 15 — How Others See Me

A scenic walk, two unexpected conversations, and a question I carried home.

A stone church tower under a blue sky, reflected in the glass facade of a nearby building.
Photo Credit: micheile henderson

October 15th.

Today was a really great day.

Work seemed to fly by. Good conversations with colleagues.

I tried a new food spot on a whim. Teriyaki chicken and rice, with a side of super thinly sliced pickled ginger.

And at a decent price!

It was so good I ended up picking up two to-go orders to have for dinner over the next few days (smiles).

Heading home, I took a scenic route and really just took in my surroundings.

The many hills and sideways homes.

Walking, I could hear kids playing and laughing.

Out of nowhere, I hear a woman’s voice:

“Hey, give me your legs!”

I turn, smiling, and say, “You’ll get used to it. Your legs will be strong in no time.”

I can see her husband a great deal behind.

We go back and forth for a while. Before I know it, I’m at my corner.

Before turning, I look back and wish her a good day.

I make it home, to my surprise, 10 minutes earlier than normal.

I unwind until 5:30 p.m. and leave out for the gym.

Chest, back, and shoulders today.

I get in, and it’s a full house.

I finish up chest and back and get ready for shoulders.

Before I can rerack my dumbbells, a young man taps me and says:

“Man, you are huge!”

With my headphones in, all I can see are moving lips.

I slip out an earbud and say, “Huh?”

“I was just saying you’re huge. I mean, you’re a big dude.”

I smile and say, “You think so?”

“Yeah, I think anyone who sees you would say the same.”

I thank him and compliment him also. He wasn’t a large guy, but he was very solid. Lean. Built.

We exchange names and shake hands.

As I’m walking to the back extension apparatus, I can’t help but think:

Why can’t I see myself how people perceive me?

Now, I’m not saying I don’t know I’m a big guy, but if you could see how people look at me in the gym, and when I talk to people here and there, it’s like I’m not registering my appearance.

I finish up the rest of back, check my logs, and hit the door.

It’s late, so I grab something for dinner on the way home.

I’ve completed my day, and as you probably know, I’m now writing and eating, preparing to call it a night.

What a day.

I’m thankful for strength, faith, and peace of mind.

Thank you for following along and reading daily. I really do appreciate it.

Sow deliberately. Accept uncertainty. Face the harvest. Then sow again.

— Tip

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